How do you use a prostate massager? And what is the best choice?
Men, like women, have a very sensitive spot that is often overlooked: the prostate, also known as the P-spot. This area is seen by many men as a sort of "no-go zone", and that is actually a shame. Because the prostate can not only provide intense pleasure and arousal, but stimulating it is also good for your health. Prostate massage can promote blood circulation, keep the prostate healthy and even make orgasms more intense. Plenty of reasons, then, to look at this spot with fresh eyes.
The prostate is located only a few centimetres deep in the anus, making it relatively easy to reach and stimulate. This can be done manually, for example by a partner using their fingers, but there are also special prostate massagers and vibrators developed specifically to stimulate this sensitive area.
How do you use such a prostate massager or vibrator correctly? And what is the best prostate massager?
We are happy to explain the benefits of a prostate massager and provide practical tips for safe and pleasurable use. Whether you are a beginner or already more experienced, we are happy to help you on your way. We also show the differences between prostate massagers, so you can make the best choice for your situation.
This way, prostate stimulation can truly take your sex life to a higher level!
Why is it important for health?
The prostate is a small gland responsible for producing an important part of the semen. By regularly massaging the prostate, stored seminal fluid can be released, essentially 'flushing out' the gland. This can prevent build-ups of seminal fluid in the prostate, which can lead to discomfort or inflammation.
Regular prostate massage offers many health benefits. It not only helps prevent prostatitis (prostate inflammation), but can also contribute to reducing the risk of prostate cancer, genital pain and discomfort during urination. Additionally, it promotes blood circulation to the pelvic area, which can improve erectile function and increase the amount of seminal fluid.
In some cases, prostate stimulation can also provide support in treating problems such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction (ED).
Prostate massage and Prostatitis
For men suffering from prostatitis, prostate massage can help provide relief. Approximately 90% of all men will experience prostate problems at some point in their lives, such as inflammation or benign enlargements. Before the introduction of antibiotics, prostate massage was even often used as a natural treatment method to relieve the symptoms of prostatitis. It stimulates blood circulation in the prostate and thus helps reduce inflammation and keep the gland functioning optimally.
How often should you do a prostate massage?
If you have a healthy prostate, it is recommended to undergo a prostate massage at least once a month to promote the health of the gland. For men with existing prostate problems, such as inflammation or other complaints, it is often advised to do this more frequently, for example weekly. However, this is best done in consultation with a doctor or specialist, to ensure the massage takes place in a safe and effective manner.
Prostate massages are a natural and effective way to keep the prostate healthy and can be a valuable addition to men's overall health.
Why is it arousing? And effective?
An important reason to stimulate the prostate is, of course, the more intense pleasure that many men experience. By massaging the prostate during sex, not only can the erection improve, but the orgasm often becomes much more powerful and deeper. The idea that the prostate is a 'no-go' zone is a shame, because prostate stimulation offers much more than just health benefits. It can add a whole new dimension to your sex life.
Orgasm through prostate stimulation alone
It is also possible to reach orgasm solely through stimulation of the prostate, without any touch of the penis. Many men describe this as a completely different kind of orgasm - one that is felt throughout the entire body. It is less focused on the genitals and more on a deep, inner sensation. This type of orgasm can even feel more powerful and longer-lasting than a traditional orgasm caused by direct stimulation of the penis.
Multiple orgasms without ejaculation
Another remarkable aspect of prostate orgasms is that they often occur without ejaculation. This means no seminal fluid is released, and no recovery time is needed as with a traditional orgasm. This allows men to experience multiple orgasms in succession, sometimes in a short time. This is in stark contrast to a traditional orgasm where your body needs time to 'recharge'.
Experience from Henk on our test team: "In a good session, I can sometimes go from one orgasm to the next, without a pause. Sometimes it seems as if the orgasm lasts 5-10 minutes. Then it subsides briefly before starting again. I often experience multiple orgasms in succession, and some last about 15 seconds, followed by a short pause before the next orgasm begins."
Prostate removed? No problem!
Even if the prostate has been removed, stimulation of the area can still produce intense sensations. The nerves in and around the anus remain intact, and are still sensitive to touch and pressure. Many men who have lost their prostate through surgery report that they can still experience intense and satisfying orgasms through stimulation of these nerves. This proves that the prostate itself is not the only source of pleasure - the surrounding nerves also play a crucial role.
Experience from Jean Pierre: "My prostate was removed with the help of a Da Vinci robot. I had difficulty reaching orgasm, but now I use a prostate vibrator. I insert it to approximately where my prostate used to be. The nerves located there still provide a lot of pleasure. My orgasms are now even better and more intense than before."
Health benefits of prostate stimulation
In addition to the exciting sensations, regular prostate stimulation also has health benefits. It can help improve blood circulation in the prostate, prevent inflammation such as prostatitis and even contribute to better erectile function. By 'flushing out' the prostate, you prevent build-up of seminal fluid, which reduces the chance of pain, inflammation and urination problems.
For a healthy prostate, it is a good idea to apply a prostate massage at least once a month. For men with prostate problems, a weekly massage is usually advised, always in consultation with a doctor or specialist.
In short, plenty of good, exciting and healthy reasons to experiment with prostate stimulation.
Preparing for a prostate massage
Performing a prostate massage requires some preparation. This is to make it a pleasant and exciting experience, and to prevent damage. The prostate is sensitive, but the exterior is also delicate and susceptible to small wounds.
- Fingernails must be trimmed and filed. This is to prevent small scratches and wounds in the rectum or on the prostate.
- Use a generous amount of lubricant. For a massage without a toy, it is best to choose a silicone-based lubricant. If you use a silicone toy, you must use a water-based lubricant.
- Tip: use an anal douche for thorough cleansing.
- Ensure complete relaxation, for example by taking a shower or bath first.
Take time for relaxation and arousal
Do not rush! Take plenty of time. It takes a while for the anal sphincter muscles to relax and be ready for penetration. And arousal also leads to more feeling and enjoyment. The more time you take for relaxation and arousal, the better the experience will be.
Where is the prostate? And where should you massage?
The man's P-spot is located approximately 6-7 cm inside the anus. Your partner's finger can reach it well.
For the partner: make sure your nails are properly trimmed and filed. Apply a generous amount of lubricant to your finger and in and around the anus.
Insert your finger very carefully into the anus. Stop occasionally, until you feel the muscles relax, and then continue gently.
Then make very slow "come here" motions with your finger or gently massage the prostate with small circular movements.
Important: make calm, small and gentle movements.
Do not: make thrusting movements!
More about giving a prostate massage can be read here.
It is very difficult to reach your entire prostate with your own finger. Most men can only touch the bottom of their prostate.
If you want to perform a prostate massage on yourself, you need a prostate massager.
Prostate massage - with "come here" motion
Insert your finger very carefully into the anus. Stop occasionally, until you feel the muscles relax, and then continue gently. Then make very slow "come here" motions with your finger.
Prostate massage - with circular movements
Feel the prostate (a sort of chestnut shape) and carefully stroke over it with your finger.
Gently massage the prostate with small circular movements.
How do you use a prostate (P-spot) stimulator?
As just mentioned: using a prostate massager
As just mentioned, it is difficult to perform a prostate massage on yourself with your finger, but you can use a prostate massager for this. With it, you can stimulate the prostate in approximately the same way as with a finger.
A prostate stimulator has a distinctive shape. They usually have a slightly curved form to stimulate precisely the right spot. They are designed to be easy to insert. And a good prostate stimulator, once gently inserted, stays firmly in place.
By tensing the pelvic floor muscle and then releasing it, you massage the prostate. It works best to make these movements in a relaxed, rhythmic tempo. You can synchronise your breathing with your movements.
So with a prostate massager, it is about lying relaxed, inserting it, tensing and relaxing the pelvic floor muscles, and enjoying. And by enjoying, we mean enjoying for a long time. A prostate massage is not something you do in fifteen minutes - you should allow at least an hour for it.
You can also gently move the stimulator by hand for extra stimulation. For example, up and down, which often works best. But you can also gently rotate the prostate massager by hand or make a rocking motion.
It is important that the movements are small and made calmly, so you do not damage anything and can quietly enjoy the subtle sensations on your prostate. Note: with a prostate massager, you generally do not make thrusting movements. You can also make a rocking motion with a prostate massager while sitting.
You can use a prostate massager in different ways and at different times
- During masturbation
- You can wear it while having sex with your partner for extra arousal and enjoyment.
- You can use the prostate vibrator for a prostate massage and a prostate orgasm.
- You can wear it during your daily activities.
How do you insert a prostate stimulator/massager?
First make sure the anal sphincter muscles are fully relaxed. To do this, slowly make circles around your anus with your finger, or prostate toy. Make sure that whatever you use is well lubricated.
Bring your finger, or toy to the entrance of your anus and feel whether penetration of the anus is easy, whether the anus is, as it were, open to it. If this is not the case, continue making circles around the anus. Just as long until you feel that penetration of the anus feels comfortable.
Experience tip from Henk
"When inserting, it is important that there is a generous amount of lubricant on the part of the massager to be inserted. You can apply this with your fingers onto the massager, as well as a little into the anus. This is also important during the session, as it allows the massager to move well. I find lubricants with a somewhat thicker consistency the most pleasant to use (Hydra +, Aneros and Soothe Intimate Earth)."
Inserting a prostate massager: positions
The easiest way is to lie on your side, with both knees or one knee drawn up. Another comfortable position is lying on your back with your knees in the air. If you want to wear the prostate massager during the day, a squatting position can work well.
Find a position in which you can most easily reach your anus and that feels most comfortable for you. It is important to relax and then carefully insert, or have inserted, the prostate stimulator.
User tip from Henk
"By applying a little pressure to the anus, the head of the massager can slide inside. Once the head is past the involuntary anal sphincter and you then fully relax, the massager is naturally drawn inward. With the somewhat thicker models, you still need to help a little."
It is, as mentioned above, extremely important to use a generous amount of lubricant when inserting. This area does not naturally produce moisture and without lubricant, insertion can cause skin damage. There is a large number of excellent lubricants available to buy, but the best ones for anal use are the thicker substances.
After insertion
Once inserted, try to relax as much as possible. You can then use your sphincter muscle to manoeuvre the toy into the right position for you. You can do this without using your hands. Once the toy is inserted and in the right place, you can, if you find it arousing, gently move the stimulator or apply some pressure to it.
You can use your pelvic floor muscles to have the toy massage the prostate, or you can use your hands. As mentioned earlier: take it easy, the enjoyment lies in the small, subtle movements, not in the big ones.
Experience and advice from Henk on our test team
"After insertion, I try to relax my entire body for 10-15 minutes as much as possible and focus on my prostate. When I do this, I find that the head of the massager is usually already pressing nicely against the prostate. Often, wonderful sensations start to come already. Then I begin with light contractions."
How do you use a prostate massager? Positions to experiment with solo
Different prostate massagers
There are many different prostate massagers, vibrators and stimulators available. They come in different sizes and shapes. You can get them with vibrations and without vibrations.
Many prostate vibrators are designed so that, in addition to the prostate, they also stimulate the perineum (the spot below the testicles). By applying pressure to the perineum, the erection can become more intense and powerful.
There are also butt plugs that stimulate the prostate - these have a tip that is slightly curved. But most butt plugs are straight and therefore just miss the P-spot.
How do you choose the right prostate vibrator? What is the best? Our advice
Size
First, there is the size. It may sound somewhat contradictory, but if you are buying a prostate vibrator for the first time, you should not immediately be put off by a somewhat larger size. Because the larger the (tip of the) prostate massager, the easier it is to find your P-spot. And the better it stays in place. The smaller, the trickier. Prostate massagers for advanced users often have a small head and are thinner. These are more manoeuvrable. As a man, you need to use your sphincter muscles to exercise control over these prostate massagers. But, according to the experts, this does lead to unparalleled sensations.
Of course, as a beginner, you should not choose an overly large model either. A larger model can be somewhat more uncomfortable to insert. A good prostate massager for beginners has a diameter of approximately 2-3 centimetres and an insertable length of about 8-10 cm, depending on the model.
Of course, it remains a personal choice. The size should suit your build, your wishes and the level of comfort you are seeking.
Also good to know
- If you want to wear the prostate massager for a longer time or use it for a prostate massage (long duration), then the smaller models are most suitable.
- If you want to use the prostate massager during masturbation or intercourse, you can opt for a somewhat larger and thicker model. These activities typically last somewhat shorter.
Note: If you are older, too much pressure on the prostate is often not pleasant and it is best to choose a not too large and long model.
How vibrating and non-vibrating prostate massagers work
Our top 4 Prostate Massagers for Beginners
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Aneros Helix Syn V - Vibrating Prostate Massager- Regular price
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Anal Douche S/M- Regular price
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Aneros Helix Syn: Best Prostate Massager for Beginners - Extra Comfort- Regular price
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Anal Play Set for Him and Her- Regular price
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Aneros Vice 2: Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote Control- Regular price
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NJoy Pure Wand: perfect for him and her- Regular price
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Anal Shower; for Intimate Cleansing- Regular price
- €24,95
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Learn Prostate Massage DVD- Regular price
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Great prostate vibrator for beginners- Regular price
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Nexus Revo Stealth: exceptional prostate massager- Regular price
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Nexus Douche
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Top 3 for Beginners and Experienced Users from Henk
Henk is one of our most important testers and has tested and compared virtually all prostate massagers.
Henk is 60 plus, 1.84m tall, average weight and has a slightly enlarged prostate.
Henk about himself: "I am an ordinary man who, despite advancing age, still wants to enjoy fine sex in a pleasant way as much as possible. By using a massager, among other things, I experience more pleasure and enjoyment, and it has actually, despite getting older, only become better and more pleasurable. Good toys are a wonderful aid in making everything even nicer and more enjoyable. I truly hope it helps men to make a good choice, and after starting with their first model, to continue experimenting to find which massager is even better and more pleasurable for them."
Making a top 3 is quite difficult for me
If a beginner wants to aim for prostate orgasms, it is advisable to use a massager without vibrations in order to get to know the sensations. Additionally, the massager should also be suitable for wearing for longer periods and for sitting comfortably with. These 2 properties helped me enormously in achieving my first prostate orgasms.
If a beginner wants to use the massager solely for more pleasure during climax, then a vibrating model is also perfectly fine.
Prostate Massagers for beginners:
- Aneros Helix Syn
- Aneros Eupho
- We Vibe Vector (low intensity vibrations available)
Prostate Massagers as second purchase:
We Vibe Vector (option for very intense vibrations)- Psy Aneros (adaptable to the body, perfect after a Helix Syn Aneros)
- Aneros Helix Syn V (unfortunately no remote control)
- Nexus Revo Slim (wonderful stimulation from the rotating head, it did not stay in place well for me but with a helping hand it did, another tester had no issues with this)
- Hugo by Lelo (This massager has the strongest vibrations, something that will probably be greatly appreciated by many men. If they do not find the strongest vibrations pleasant, they of course always have the choice not to use them and through this they know where their limit lies regarding vibrations)
You could also go for a thicker/longer model as a second purchase if you want to experience the fuller feeling.
- Aneros Vice 2
- Aneros Progasm Ice
My limit regarding diameters is approximately 33 mm and the insertable length approximately 10 cm maximum.
Top 3 for Beginners and Experienced Users from Timothy
Timothy is an experienced tester of prostate massagers and other toys for us.
He also works as an escort in the highest segment.
His top 3 for beginners looks as follows:
- Aneros Helix Syn Trident, it still does it for him and remains one of my favourites. Simple and effective, handy and outstanding material.
- We-Vibe Vector, because you can play with 2. Not too intense but still enjoyable.
- Nexus Si Ultra Glide. The metal roller for going over the perineum is top notch.
His top 3 for more experienced users:
- Aneros Vice 2. This one has so many different options and functions.
- Nexus Revolution Slim, for the rotating head.
- Nexus G-Stroker, because it has the lovely beads. I actually rarely use the vibration function.
- I find the Loki Wave enjoyable but not a top pick since the controls get in the way. You can only use it while lying down. So you cannot walk around with it and you cannot use it while sitting either.
Overview of Good Prostate Massagers - Sizes Compared
| Prostaat Massager | Inbreng lengte | Ø breedste deel | Ø kop |
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| Progasm Ice | 11,4 cm | 3,4 cm | 3,2 cm |
| Helix Syn Aneros | 10,2 cm | 2,7 cm | 2,7 cm |
| Helix Trident | 10,2 cm | 2,7 cm | 2,7 cm |
| Vice 2 Aneros | 10,2 cm | 3,3 cm | 3,3 cm |
| Eupho Syn Aneros | 10,1 cm | 2,1 cm | 1,9 cm |
| Nexus Ultra SI | 9,5 cm | 3,4 cm | 2,8 cm |
| Nexus Revo Stealth | 9,5 cm | 3,4 cm | 3,3 cm |
| Nexus Revo Slim | 9,5 cm | 3,2 cm | 3,2 cm |
| Helix Syn V | 9,1 cm | 2,5 cm | 2,3 cm |
| Loki Lelo | 9 cm | 3,8 cm | 3,3 cm |
| Progasm Ice JR | 8,9 cm | 2,9 cm | 2,4 cm |
| Hugo Lelo / Bruno | 8,5 cm | 3 cm | 3 cm |
| Vector We-Vibe | 8,5 cm | 2,9 cm | 2,9 cm |
| Psy Aneros | ca. 8,5 cm | 2,8 cm | 1,8 cm |
Progasm Ice
11,4Lengte cm
3,4Ø breed
3,2Ø kop
Helix Syn Aneros
10,2Lengte cm
2,7Ø breed
2,7Ø kop
Helix Trident
10,2Lengte cm
2,7Ø breed
2,7Ø kop
Vice 2 Aneros
10,2Lengte cm
3,3Ø breed
3,3Ø kop
Eupho Syn Aneros
10,1Lengte cm
2,1Ø breed
1,9Ø kop
Nexus Ultra SI
9,5Lengte cm
3,4Ø breed
2,8Ø kop
Nexus Revo Stealth
9,5Lengte cm
3,4Ø breed
3,3Ø kop
Nexus Revo Slim
9,5Lengte cm
3,2Ø breed
3,2Ø kop
Helix Syn V
9,1Lengte cm
2,5Ø breed
2,3Ø kop
Loki Lelo
9Lengte cm
3,8Ø breed
3,3Ø kop
Progasm Ice JR
8,9Lengte cm
2,9Ø breed
2,4Ø kop
Hugo Lelo / Bruno
8,5Lengte cm
3Ø breed
3Ø kop
Vector We-Vibe
8,5Lengte cm
2,9Ø breed
2,9Ø kop
Psy Aneros
~8,5Lengte cm
2,8Ø breed
1,8Ø kop
| Massager | Kracht (1–5) | Lage stand | Geschikt voor |
|---|---|---|---|
| Hugo Lelo | 5 | Nee | Ervaren |
| Nexus G Stroker | 4 | Ja | Ervaren |
| Vector We-Vibe | 4 | Ja | Iedereen |
| Loki Lelo | 4 | Ja | Ervaren |
| Bruno Lelo | 3,5 | Nee | Ervaren |
| Vice 2 Aneros | 3,5 | Nee | Ervaren |
| Helix Syn V | 3 | Ja | Iedereen |
| Vick Svakom | 3 | Ja | Beginner |
| Nexus Revo Stealth | 2 (roteert) | Nee | Ervaren |
| Nexus Revo Slim | 2 (roteert) | Nee | Ervaren |
Hugo Lelo
5Kracht
Lage stand×
Geschikt voorErvaren
Nexus G Stroker
4Kracht
Lage stand✓
Geschikt voorErvaren
Vector We-Vibe
4Kracht
Lage stand✓
Geschikt voorIedereen
Loki Lelo
4Kracht
Lage stand✓
Geschikt voorErvaren
Bruno Lelo
3,5Kracht
Lage stand×
Geschikt voorErvaren
Vice 2 Aneros
3,5Kracht
Lage stand×
Geschikt voorErvaren
Helix Syn V
3Kracht
Lage stand✓
Geschikt voorIedereen
Vick Svakom
3Kracht
Lage stand✓
Geschikt voorBeginner
Nexus Revo Stealth
2Kracht
Lage stand×
Geschikt voorErvaren
RoteertNexus Revo Slim
2Kracht
Lage stand×
Geschikt voorErvaren
Roteert| Massager | Waterproof 100% | Afstandsbediening & App |
|---|---|---|
| Hugo Lelo | Ja | Ja |
| Hugo 2 Lelo | Ja | Ja & app |
| Vector We-Vibe | Ja | Ja & app |
| Vick Svakom | Ja | Ja |
| Nexus Revo Stealth | Ja | Ja |
| Nexus Revo Slim | Ja | Ja |
| Loki Lelo | Ja | Nee |
| Vice 2 Aneros | Nee | Ja |
| Helix Syn V | Nee | Nee |
Hugo Lelo
Waterproof✓
Afstandsbed.✓
Hugo 2 Lelo
Waterproof✓
Afstandsbed. & app✓
Vector We-Vibe
Waterproof✓
Afstandsbed. & app✓
Vick Svakom
Waterproof✓
Afstandsbed.✓
Nexus Revo Stealth
Waterproof✓
Afstandsbed.✓
Nexus Revo Slim
Waterproof✓
Afstandsbed.✓
Loki Lelo
Waterproof✓
Afstandsbed.×
Vice 2 Aneros
Waterproof×
Afstandsbed.✓
Helix Syn V
Waterproof×
Afstandsbed.×
De Vorm: Waarom Dat Uitmaakt
Het inbrengbare gedeelte van prostaat massagers ziet er op het eerste gezicht vergelijkbaar uit, maar er zitten belangrijke verschillen in de vorm van de top. Er zijn modellen met een taps toelopende top en modellen met een brede, bolle top — en alles daartussenin.
Een taps toelopende massager is gemakkelijker in te brengen en daarom ideaal voor beginners. Een brede, bolle top is wat lastiger in te brengen, maar geeft eenmaal geplaatst een heerlijk gevoel van gevuldheid. Bekijk de tab Afmetingen om de diameters te vergelijken en het juiste model voor u te vinden.
Voor beginners en mannen die comfort zoeken zijn taps toelopende modellen zoals de Vector het meest geschikt. Prostaat massagers met een brede bolle top zoals de Aneros Vice zijn geschikt voor mannen met meer ervaring.
Perineum Stimulatie
Veel prostaat massagers hebben een uitsteeksel voor het stimuleren van het perineum — het gevoelige gebied tussen de testikels en de anus. Voor veel mannen is dit een bijzonder opwindend gebied.
Vindt u perineum stimulatie niet plezierig? Let daar dan op bij uw keuze. Wilt u juist de beste perineum stimulatie? Kies dan een vibrerend model: die zorgen voor de meeste stimulatie van dit gebied. Bekijk de tab Vibratiekracht om de krachtigste modellen te vergelijken.
Prostaat Vibrator vs. Prostaat Massager
Naast de klassieke massagers zijn er ook prostaat vibrators die eruitzien als "gewone" vibrators, zoals de Loki van Lelo. Deze blijft dankzij zijn specifieke vorm uitstekend op zijn plek zitten, maar is niet bedoeld om te dragen tijdens de seks. U kunt er wel op verschillende opwindende manieren de prostaat mee stimuleren — solo of door uw partner.
Prostaat vibrators laten zich eenvoudig en precies richten op de juiste plek. U kunt er ook stootbewegingen mee maken voor extra stimulatie. Daarbij zijn ze ook prima door de dame te gebruiken als vibrator.
Dragen of Zittend Gebruiken
Een prostaat stimulator kan, net als een buttplug, ook gedragen worden als u niet vrijt — gewoon overdag of 's avonds onder de kleding. Veel mannen ervaren dat als bijzonder opwindend.
Let er dan op dat het handvat een vlakke basis heeft die comfortabel tussen de bilnaad valt, en dat het materiaal enigszins flexibel is zodat het zich naar uw lichaam vormt.
Vibraties: Waar U Op Moet Letten
Bij vibrerende prostaat massagers ziet u grote kwaliteitsverschillen. Goedkopere modellen hebben vaak trillingen die niet krachtig en robuust genoeg zijn voor anale stimulatie. De vibraties moeten robuust en vrij krachtig zijn, maar heel krachtig is voor de meeste mannen niet plezierig — dat kan ongemakkelijke druk geven.
Gelukkig verschijnen er steeds meer vibrerende modellen met een toegankelijk formaat, geschikt voor zowel beginners als gevorderden. Op zoek naar super power? Dan moet u de Hugo van Lelo hebben. Op zoek naar goede, lekkere robuuste vibraties? Dan is de Vector een aanrader. Vergelijk alle vibrerende modellen in de tab Vibratiekracht.
Tip voor beginners: vibraties kunnen afleiden van de subtiele sensaties die prostaat stimulatie teweegbrengt. Start daarom met vibraties uit, of kies een model met een zachte eerste stand. Bij de meeste massagers kunt u de vibraties gewoon uitzetten.
Afstandsbediening & App
De meeste luxe vibrerende prostaat massagers hebben een afstandsbediening, en sommige zelfs app-bediening. Zowel bij solo gebruik als samen is dit een groot pluspunt: het is vaak lastig om bij de knopjes op de massager te komen tijdens het dragen. Bekijk in de tab Waterproof & Bediening welke modellen een afstandsbediening of app hebben.
Materiaal
Een prostaat massager moet stevig genoeg zijn om op zijn plek te blijven, maar ook flexibel genoeg voor comfortabel inbrengen. De meeste goede modellen hebben een buitenlaag van siliconen: dat voelt natuurlijk en zacht aan, en is gemakkelijk schoon te maken.
Let op: bij siliconen kunt u geen glijmiddel op siliconenbasis gebruiken. Kies voor een goed (wat dikker) glijmiddel op waterbasis. Ook een metalen prostaat stimulator kan een goede keuze zijn — metaal is koud en hard, maar kan ook warm gemaakt worden voor andere opwindende sensaties.
Waterproof
Wilt u uw prostaat massager onder de douche gebruiken? Let er dan op dat het model minimaal IPX4-niveau (100% waterproof) is. Niet alle modellen zijn hiervoor geschikt. In de tab Waterproof & Bediening ziet u precies welke modellen waterdicht zijn.
Prostaat Massage & Prostaat Orgasme: Tips voor Beginners
- Het leren genieten van een prostaat massage vergt oefening en geduld. Zie het als een sensuele reis waarbij het genieten van de reis het doel is.
- Zorg dat u ontspannen bent, op een plek en tijd waar u zich veilig voelt.
- Gebruik altijd voldoende glijmiddel.
- Wees mentaal opgewonden — gebruik uw fantasie om in de stemming te komen.
- Neem ruim de tijd voor uw eerste sessies (ca. 60–90 minuten).
- Vermijd de eerste keren stimulatie van de penis, zodat u de subtiele sensaties van de prostaat massage beter kunt ervaren.
- Probeer niets te forceren of te versnellen. Ervaar subtiel genieten.
- U heeft géén erectie nodig. Concentreer u liever op andere gevoelige plekken.
- Voelt het ongemakkelijk of pijnlijk? Stop dan en probeer het een andere dag opnieuw.
- Gebruik geen middelen (zoals alcohol) die de zintuigen verdoven.
- Begin de eerste sessies zonder vibraties om de subtiele reacties van uw lichaam te leren kennen.
- Het kan een aantal sessies duren voordat u echt iets voelt. Dat is normaal — uw ervaringen worden na verloop van tijd intenser.
- Sterke bekkenbodemspieren helpen. Kegel-oefeningen maken prostaatorgasmes makkelijker bereikbaar.
- Een fijne ervaring draait om de harmonie tussen spierspanning, ademhaling, focus en opwinding.
- Leg de focus niet op het orgasme maar op het genieten van de massage zelf. Er is altijd een volgende keer.
Tips voor Extra Sensatie
- Gebruik een stimulerend serum (zoals Intense +) op de prostaat massager voor een intensere ervaring. Het serum werkt tegelijkertijd als glijmiddel.
- Direct na het inbrengen voelt u een tintelende sensatie die ca. 20–25 minuten aanhoudt. Daarna kunt u het serum opnieuw aanbrengen.
Ervaring van Henk:
"De sensaties die ik bij de serums krijg kan ik moeilijk omschrijven, zo geweldig zijn ze. Ik ervaar een constant gevoel van zeer groot genot en een enorm lekkere prikkeling. De prostaat orgasmes voelen heel diep en intens lekker aan. Mijn conclusie: een serum maakt een prostaat massage enorm intenser."
Langer Durend Prostaatorgasme
Breng de prostaatmassager in na het bereiken van een "normaal" orgasme. Dit verhoogt de intensiteit en zorgt ervoor dat het prostaatorgasme sneller op gang komt en langer duurt.
Combinatie met Cockringen
Een bijzondere combinatie: gebruik een prostaat massager en een cockring tegelijkertijd. Het effect is een veel stevigere erectie en een vele malen intenser orgasme, zowel bij masturbatie als gemeenschap.
Doe het zo: breng eerst de prostaat massager in. Nadat u deze een tijdje heeft gebruikt, doet u de penisring om — aan de basis van de penis of achter de balzak. Afzonderlijke producten combineren beter dan all-in-one modellen, omdat u de ring op ieder gewenst moment eenvoudig kunt aanbrengen of verwijderen.
Gebruiksmogelijkheden voor Heren, Dames en Stellen
Een vibrerende prostaat massager is op vele manieren te gebruiken — solo, samen, en ook voor haar. Hieronder vindt u een aantal leuke speelmogelijkheden.
Having trouble inserting a prostate massager?
Try inserting a prostate massager after a "normal" orgasm.
It is perfectly possible to have a prostate massage after a "normal" orgasm.
After a "normal" orgasm, the pelvic floor muscles are fully relaxed,
which makes it easier to insert the prostate massager.
Henk:
"Normally I have to slowly insert the massager with patience and good relaxation, to be able to pass the sphincter muscle. After a "normal" orgasm, this went very easily and smoothly every time. I think that due to the orgasm the pelvic floor was very relaxed, I did not need to relax extra".
This also has the effect that the prostate orgasm builds up faster and lasts longer.
Good to know
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is a prostate massager and what is it used for?
A prostate massager is a specially designed sex toy that stimulates the prostate via the anus. The prostate, also known as the male G-spot, is located a few centimetres inside the rectum. Stimulation can lead to intense orgasms and is also used therapeutically for prostate complaints.
Is prostate stimulation safe?
Yes, prostate stimulation is safe when you use a specially designed prostate massager with a wide base. Always use sufficient lubricant and do not force anything. Start slowly and listen to your body. If you have existing prostate complaints, it is wise to consult your doctor first.
Which prostate massager is best for beginners?
The Aneros Helix Syn is an excellent choice for beginners. This model is compact, has an anatomical design and is made of soft silicone. It requires no batteries and works on natural body movements, allowing you to stay in control.
Which lubricant should I use with a prostate massager?
Always use a water-based lubricant with silicone prostate massagers. Anal lubricant is thicker and stays in place longer than regular lubricant. Apply it generously to both the massager and around the anus for maximum comfort.
How do I clean a prostate massager?
Clean your prostate massager before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or a specialist toy cleaner. Silicone models can also be boiled for complete sterilisation. Hygiene is especially important with anal use.
Can I use a prostate massager together with my partner?
Yes, many couples use a prostate massager as part of foreplay or intercourse. Communication is important here. Discuss beforehand what feels pleasant and respect each other's boundaries. It can add a new dimension to your sex life.
What is the difference between a vibrating and a non-vibrating prostate massager?
A non-vibrating massager such as the Aneros works on natural body movements and offers subtle stimulation. Vibrating models such as the Aneros Vice 2 provide extra intense stimulation via a motor. Beginners often start with a non-vibrating model to get to know the sensations.
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Bedankt voor de goede info!
Je schrijft:
“Gewoon dragen
Een prostaat stimulator kan, net als een buttplug, ook gedragen worden als je niet vrijt. Gewoon overdag of ’s avonds onder de kleding. Veel mannen ervaren dat als opwindend. Lijkt u dat wat? Let er dan op dat de vorm van het handvat hierbij past. De prostaat massager moet dan geen uitstaand handvat of ring hebben, maar een vlakke basis hebben.”
Kan je een voorbeeld geven voor een goede stimulator zonder uitstaand handvat of ring?
Ik kan ze niet vinden.
Bedankt voor uw vraag. Zeker als je wat ouder wordt is stimulatie van de prostaat naast opwindend, ook goed voor de gezondheid. Veel artsen geloven zelfs dat prostaatstimulatie een veilige en effectieve manier is om prostaataandoeningen zoals BPH, prostatitis, ontsteking, zwelling en pijn te verlichten.
Of het nu voor therapeutische of opwindende redenen is, het is belangrijk om voorzichtig te zijn.
Een aanrader vinden wij daarom de Aneros Helix Syn. Omdat deze het meest comfortabel is in gebruik en de maat bij de meeste mannen, van elke leeftijd, geschikt is. Eigenlijk zou het goed zijn voor elke man boven de 40, die serieus bezig is met gezondheid van de prostaat, om een goede prostaat massager (zoals de Aneros Helix) te hebben en deze regelmatig te gebruiken.
Het is bekend dat bij het ouder worden de prostaat groter wordt. Ik ben bijna 60 en ‘beginner’. Dient men bij het kiezen van een prostaatstimulator hier rekening te houden?
Bedankt voor de goede info!
Je schrijft:
“Gewoon dragen
Een prostaat stimulator kan, net als een buttplug, ook gedragen worden als je niet vrijt. Gewoon overdag of ’s avonds onder de kleding. Veel mannen ervaren dat als opwindend. Lijkt u dat wat? Let er dan op dat de vorm van het handvat hierbij past. De prostaat massager moet dan geen uitstaand handvat of ring hebben, maar een vlakke basis hebben.”
Kan je een voorbeeld geven voor een goede stimulator zonder uitstaand handvat of ring?
Ik kan ze niet vinden.
Bedankt voor uw vraag. Zeker als je wat ouder wordt is stimulatie van de prostaat naast opwindend, ook goed voor de gezondheid. Veel artsen geloven zelfs dat prostaatstimulatie een veilige en effectieve manier is om prostaataandoeningen zoals BPH, prostatitis, ontsteking, zwelling en pijn te verlichten.
Of het nu voor therapeutische of opwindende redenen is, het is belangrijk om voorzichtig te zijn.
Een aanrader vinden wij daarom de Aneros Helix Syn. Omdat deze het meest comfortabel is in gebruik en de maat bij de meeste mannen, van elke leeftijd, geschikt is. Eigenlijk zou het goed zijn voor elke man boven de 40, die serieus bezig is met gezondheid van de prostaat, om een goede prostaat massager (zoals de Aneros Helix) te hebben en deze regelmatig te gebruiken.